Monday, June 07, 2010 @10:24 PM
The touchy feely course.
On this day, Morrie says he has an exercise for us to try. We are to stand, facing away from our classmates, and fall-backward, relying on another student to catch us. Most of us are uncomfortable with this, and we cannot let go for more than a few inches before stopping ourselves. We laugh in embarrasemnet.
finally, one student, a thin, quiet dark-haird girl whom i notice almost always wears bulky white fisherman sweater, crosses her arms over her chest, closes he eyes, leans back, and does not flinch, like one of those Lipton tea commercials where the model splashes into the pool.
For a moment, i am sure she is going to thump on the floor. At the last instant, her assigned partner grabs her head and shoulder and yanks her up harshly.
"Whoa!" several students yell. Some clap.
Morrie finally smiles.
"You see," he says to the girl, " you closed your eyes. That was the difference. Sometimes you cannot believe what you see, you have to believe what you feel. And if you ever going to other people trust you, you must feel that you can trust them too -even when you're in the dark. Even when you are falling"